Anyone who knows me won’t believe I’m this messed up! I’m a church girl – brought up in church by Christian parents, attend church regularly, active in youth group, believe the bible, and even once declared my acceptance of Christ as Lord. And yes, I get the whole idea of sexual purity drummed into our …
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“No! No! No!” “How much time do we give you”? The moderator asked. “1 hour… 5 hours…” Recently, I anchored a break-out session – a heart-to-heart talk – with a group of girls. The allotted time was over; the girls didn’t want the class to end. They wanted to ask more questions. They wanted to …
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“So have you given an answer to that brother who proposed to you?” Yes sir. “What was the response? Was it positive?” No… No sir. “Why? Did you really pray or was your answer based on prejudice?” “You know what prejudice is…?” “I know some sisters who when they were younger kept saying NO to …
When Pressured to Exchange the Gift of Singleness: 10 Things You Must Remember…Read More »
In the framework of everyone (especially women) lies the desire to be valued, treated with worth and respect, and gain attention. And girl, you deserve it; you are fearfully and wonderfully made (Psalm 139:14), an awe of God’s creation. But just like you know, an egg is usually carried with great care, while a ball …
“You can have this marshmallow now; but if you wait while I run an errand, you can have two marshmallows when I get back”, the researcher told each child. In this “marshmallow test” research, each child was to either eat one marshmallow (a yummy snack) given to him/her, or wait and have two. After the …
Beep… beep… Suddenly awakening from her engrossed thoughts, she quickly went to grab her phone. “I hope it’s the police. Any news about my daughter?” “Oh hubby!” With the phone on her left ear, “Hi honey!” Then a sweet feminine voice replied from the other end, “am I speaking with Mrs. Robin?” “Yes please!” Who …
What’s going to bring women happiness, fulfillment and joy? Why should women be made to play some specific roles; which really appear to be demeaning, tasking and attracts no accolades? Are women equal to the men, or are we simply second class citizens; an after-thought of humanity? Why are women not free to dress and …
True Femininity Design: The Top Answers Our Mainstream Culture Missed OutRead More »
Look into his eyes, sister… Yes, right into his face not over his head. *Laughter* You’re doing that now, right? Ok, then say this after me – “I … do take thee to be my lawfully wedded husband…” Sitting and watching, as I witnessed the joining in holy wedlock of this beautiful couple; these were …
Have you watched a royal wedding, wondering how this young woman, above other women, was preferred by this prince? Maybe somewhere in your heart, you’re wishing and praying that someday, a prince would prefer you above other girls, take your hands in his, and sweetly walk you down the aisle. Not just any prince, a …
The Priceless Princess Preferred by a Prominent Prince: Her SecretRead More »
What does it feel like, charting your own course, and then suddenly an eastern wind blows, swaying you into a different? Confused? Unhappy? Questioning? God: “Dear girl, your relationship with that guy is dangerous and so you’ll have to cut off from him”. Girl: “But God I love him so much and won’t want to …
Sweet Surrender: What If My Own Plans Get Interrupted?Read More »