A Vow To Cleave

Hey there, radiant lady! Have you ever been captivated by the heartfelt vows exchanged between a bride and groom on their wedding day? It’s a moment filled with promises of unwavering love and loyalty. Today, I want to take you on a journey of devotion as we explore the inspiring story of Ruth. Get ready to be challenged, encouraged, and transformed as we dive into the depths of Ruth 1:15-18.

The Turning Point: When Loved Ones Turn Away

Picture this: Naomi, Ruth, and Orpah—three women bound by a shared journey. But when faced with the challenges of following Naomi to Bethlehem, Orpah couldn’t bear the cost and decided to turn back. It was a defining moment for Ruth, a moment that would test her faith and commitment.

Have you ever experienced a situation where friends or family members walked away from their faith? It can be heart-wrenching and confusing, leaving us wondering how to respond. But let’s learn from Ruth’s unwavering dedication and see how it can inspire us in our own walk with God.

No Fence-Sitting: Choosing Sides in the Spiritual Battle

In the realm of faith, there’s no room for fence-sitting. It’s either we align ourselves with God’s truth or succumb to the pressures of the world. Ruth’s unwavering commitment to God stands as a powerful example, contrasting Orpah’s choice to embrace her previous life in Moab. As young women, we often face the temptation to compromise our faith in order to fit in or please others. But remember, there’s no neutral ground when it comes to our spiritual journey. It’s time to boldly declare our stand for God and walk in His truth, no matter how challenging it may be.

When you discuss with some people who walk away from the path of righteousness, to embrace the lifestyle of the world, you hear them say things like, “I’m still a Christian. My not coming to church anymore or associating with these unbelievers or my showy dressing doesn’t mean I’m no more a child of God.”

Well, its either you’re on God’s side or on satan’s. You walk away from the path of righteousness, the only route left is the pathway of unrighteousness. Orpah went back to her people and her gods.

Have you had friends or family members who walked away from God? How painful it must be!

I remember in my earlier days of following and serving God. I remember some older sisters in the Lord, some even my leaders… very dear people. We fellowship together, sang in the choir, and served God together. I looked up to and learnt from some of them.

Some got into the university and got lost. Some walked away at the time of marriage. 

I remember praying for myself. Because already, some people guessed I’ll likely backslide. “When you get out of mum and dad’s watchful eyes, you’ll likely start to live life,” they said.

But God saw the sincerity in my heart of hearts. He heard my prayers. And here am I still standing by God’s grace. 

I imagined Ruth making such sincere prayers and commitment to God prior to this time. While they listened to Naomi recount the greatness of the God of Israel, Ruth soaked it in. Meditated. Repented. Surrendered.  

And so at this point when Orpah turned back, the faith and courage she’s built up over the years helped her remain steadfast.

And Ruth said, Intreat me not to leave thee, or to return from following after thee: for whither thou goest, I will go; and where thou lodgest, I will lodge: thy people shall be my people, and thy God my God:

Where thou diest, will I die, and there will I be buried: the Lord do so to me, and more also, if ought but death part thee and me.

The Test of Faith: A Journey of Surrender

Naomi, my mind is made up! Yes, I know the journey to Bethlehem won’t be easy. Nothing to ride on. The steep mountains, dry deserts, and dangerous paths. We’ll travel on foot for days. No weapons to defend ourselves with if an enemy attacks.

But we’ll go together. 

I remember what you said about the Israelites seeing Moabites as strangers. I don’t mind what they’ll think of, or how they’ll act towards me. Your people will be my people. I’ve received your God as my God. I’m ready to die and be buried with you.

And she sealed it with a curse on herself: May the hand of the Lord rest upon me if anything but death separate us.

What an utterance. What a pledge. What a consecration.

Can you make that kind of vow to the Lord? To follow Him no matter how bleak the future looks. Let’s take a moment to reflect on our own journey of faith and ask ourselves if we’re truly committed to following God’s path, no matter the cost.

A Covenant Sealed: Walking Through Life Together

Ruth’s vow to Naomi was not just an empty promise—it was a sacred covenant. She pledged to remain by Naomi’s side until death, even in the face of uncertainty and hardships. Can you imagine the depth of their bond and the strength of Ruth’s commitment?

In a world where relationships often come and go, we are called to cultivate a steadfast commitment to God and to those He places in our lives. Let’s challenge ourselves to be women of our word, to walk through life together, supporting and encouraging one another on this incredible journey of faith.

The Power of Sacrifice: Embracing the Cross

Making a covenant with God requires sacrifice. Jesus Himself emphasized the need to deny ourselves, take up our cross daily, and follow Him. Our commitment to God should come at a cost—a willingness to surrender our desires and embrace His will.

Sacrifice can be a daunting word, but let’s remember that the rewards far outweigh the cost. As young women, we’re called to live counter-culturally, to boldly choose the path of devotion and sacrifice for the sake of our relationship with God. It’s not always easy, but let’s encourage one another to persevere, knowing that God’s plans for us are far greater than we could ever imagine.

Like Psalm 50: 5 says, “Gather my saints together unto me; those that have made a covenant with me by sacrifice.”

Sacrifice. 

And he said to them all, If any man will come after me, let him deny himself, and take up his cross daily, and follow me. (Luke 9: 23)

Unshakable Devotion: Anchored in God’s Love

No matter what challenges we face—tribulation, distress, persecution, or even our own weaknesses—nothing can separate us from the love of Christ. When we make the vow to cleave to God, we can rest assured that He will be faithful to us, guiding and empowering us every step of the way. As young women seeking to live out our faith in a world that often opposes our beliefs, let’s take heart in knowing that our devotion to God is rooted in His unending love. We are not alone in this journey. Let’s embrace our identity as daughters of the King and walk with confidence, knowing that God is for us and nothing can stand against us.

Conclusion

So, are you ready to take the vow to cleave to God, no matter what? Let’s walk this path of unwavering devotion together, knowing that God’s promises are sure and His love is unfailing. Anchor your faith in Ruth’s powerful declaration: “Whither thou goest, I will go… Thy people shall be my people, and thy God my God.” Together, let’s choose the path of faith, courage, and unshakable devotion.

Action Points

1. Daily Devotion: Make it a priority to spend time with God each day through prayer, reading His Word, and meditating on His promises. Set aside a specific time and create a sacred space where you can seek His presence and listen to His voice.
2. Join a Community: Surround yourself with like-minded believers who will support and encourage you in your faith journey. Find a local church or a small group where you can connect, grow, and serve alongside others who share your commitment to God.
3. Serve Others: Look for opportunities to serve those in need, both within your church community and beyond. Whether it’s volunteering at a local shelter, helping out at a charity organization, or reaching out to those who are hurting, let your commitment to God manifest in acts of love and service.
4. Guard Your Influences: Be intentional about the media, entertainment, and friendships you engage with. Surround yourself with positive influences that align with your commitment to God. Seek out mentors who can guide you and provide spiritual accountability.
5. Embrace Accountability: Find a trusted mentor or accountability partner who can walk alongside you in your commitment to God. Share your struggles, triumphs, and prayer requests with someone who can provide guidance, support, and encouragement along the way.